Understanding Local Customs in Palestine
Traveling to Palestine is an eye-opening experience. The people here are known for their hospitality, and you’ll most likely feel welcomed as soon as you arrive. However, like in any country, it’s important to be aware of the local customs and traditions. Respect goes a long way in ensuring a positive experience.
Greetings and Social Interactions
Palestinian people have a strong sense of family and community. Greeting someone warmly is expected. A traditional greeting is “Salaam alaykum,” which translates to “Peace be upon you.” The response to this is “Wa alaykum as-salaam,” meaning “And upon you be peace.” Learn this phrase—it comes in handy.
For men, a handshake is common. For women, always wait and see what the woman does first. Some women may offer their hand, while others may not due to cultural or religious reasons. In formal settings, especially in conservative areas, women might prefer not to shake hands with men at all. It’s polite to follow their lead.
If you are visiting a family, you’ll notice the focus on hospitality. You’ll likely be offered food and drink. It’s considered rude to refuse a cup of tea or coffee, even if you just take a sip. Just be polite and accept what’s offered.
Dress Code
In Palestine, dressing conservatively is best. For men, light, breathable clothing like trousers or jeans and a short-sleeved shirt are fine. Avoid wearing shorts unless you’re in very casual settings or specific areas where they are more accepted. Even then, it’s polite to check what locals are wearing.
Women should avoid revealing clothing. Long skirts or trousers with loose shirts are the safest bet. In rural areas or more religious neighborhoods, you may want to consider covering your head with a scarf. Though not required, this shows respect, and locals generally appreciate the gesture.
In mosques or religious sites, both men and women should dress conservatively. Women should cover their arms, legs, and sometimes their head, too. Men should wear long trousers and avoid sleeveless shirts. Always check the local norms before visiting a mosque for prayers or a religious festival.
Religious Sensitivity
Islam is the predominant religion in Palestine, and religion plays a central role in daily life. Many people pray five times a day, and you’ll hear the call to prayer from mosques. During prayer times, be respectful—especially when you’re near mosques or religious communities.
If you’re there during Ramadan, the holy month of fasting, be mindful of eating or drinking in public during the day. It’s polite to refrain from consuming food and drinks in front of others, as many locals will be fasting from dawn till sunset. Most businesses adjust their hours during Ramadan, so keep that in mind while planning your day.
Even if you’re not required to participate in religious practices, following basic courtesies is important. For example, avoid critical or inappropriate comments about religious customs. That goes a long way in showing respect for local values.
Visiting Homes
If you’re invited to someone’s home, you’re in for a treat. Palestinians are known for their generous hospitality. When you enter a home, try taking off your shoes unless advised otherwise—this is usually considered polite. It’s also a good idea to bring a small gift, like cookies, chocolates, or fruit. It doesn’t have to be elaborate, but bringing something shows your appreciation.
During meals, you might find that everyone shares dishes from common plates. If you’re unsure how to proceed, simply follow the lead of your host. Wait for the host to invite you to start eating—it’s respectful to wait until they begin.
Avoid pouring your own drinks; your host will usually take care of that. It’s also polite to compliment the food, even if you’re not eating much. Declining second servings too quickly might be seen as impolite, so pace yourself accordingly.
Public Behavior
Public displays of affection aren’t common in Palestinian culture. While walking hand in hand with a spouse or a partner is fine in some areas, hugging and kissing in public is generally frowned upon. If you’re traveling with a friend or partner, keep interactions respectful in public.
If you’re visiting crowded places like markets (souqs), keep in mind that bargaining is expected in many cases. Prices aren’t usually fixed, and engaging in friendly negotiation is all part of the experience. Don’t hesitate to engage in a bit of back-and-forth to get a better price, but always do so with a smile.
Smoking is common across the country, and you’ll likely smell it in cafes and restaurants. If you’re not sure whether smoking is allowed inside, it’s OK to ask. Even so, always make sure you’re in designated areas before lighting up.
Photography
Palestine has some breathtaking scenery, and you’ll be tempted to get your camera out often. However, always ask for permission before photographing people. This is especially crucial for women, as many prefer not to be photographed. It’s a sign of respect to ask first.
In some religious or sensitive areas, photography may be restricted. Always look out for signs or ask locals before snapping photos in mosques or churches. Being considerate of the space you’re in will lead to more positive interactions.
Gender Considerations
Gender roles can be more traditional in Palestine than in many Western countries. Men and women may socialize separately depending on the occasion, and this varies between urban and rural areas. If you’re a solo female traveler, exercising modesty in both dress and behavior can help you avoid unwanted attention.
For men, especially in more conservative areas, you might be asked questions about your family or marital status. While these may seem personal, they’re usually meant with curiosity and kindness. Feel free to answer politely or sidestep the question if you’re uncomfortable.
Remember that Palestinian men and women might not interact the same way foreign men and women do in casual, mixed-gender settings. Take your cues from what the locals are doing, and if you’re uncertain, it is OK to ask for clarification from a local friend or guide.
Public Transportation and Taxis
When using public transport or taxis, it’s customary to greet the driver as you enter. In shared taxis, also known as “service taxis,” say hello to the other passengers as well. Basic greetings will smooth your interactions in this quick-paced, shared environment.
While tipping drivers isn’t mandatory, it is appreciated. Round up the fare to show gratitude, or leave a bit extra for longer rides.
In crowded buses or public areas, give up your seat to elderly individuals or women—this is seen as respectful and courteous behavior. People may occasionally offer their seat to you as a guest, but it’s polite to decline unless they insist.
Religion and Politics
Politics in Palestine is a sensitive topic. While Palestinians are open to discussing it, tread lightly with your opinions, especially if you’re unfamiliar with the local situation. If you’re not entirely aware of the political context, it’s best not to engage in deep conversations about the conflict or politics unless locals bring it up first.
If you do engage in conversations about politics, remain respectful regardless of differing opinions. Locals are more likely to appreciate your curiosity when you approach the topic from a place of genuine respect and interest.
Final Thoughts
Respect is the key to connecting with locals in Palestine. Whether it’s taking part in their customs or following their social norms, being mindful helps create positive experiences, allowing you to enjoy your journey fully. Learning a bit of Arabic won’t hurt either, even if it’s just simple phrases like “Shukran” (thank you) or “Afwan” (you’re welcome). By showing respect and curiosity, you will find that the people of Palestine are among the friendliest you’ll meet.
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