Colombia is a vibrant country with rich traditions and a deep sense of community. When traveling here, you’ll find that understanding and respecting local customs makes your experience much better. It’s important to adapt to the local culture so you can connect with people in meaningful ways.
Greetings
How you greet someone in Colombia depends on your relationship with them. In a formal setting or if you’re meeting someone for the first time, a firm handshake is common. Make eye contact and smile while doing it, as Colombians tend to value personal connections.
Among friends, it’s typical to give a kiss on the right cheek. This is more common in urban areas like Bogotá and Medellín. Between men who are close friends, you might expect a warm hug or a handshake followed by a pat on the back. If you’re not sure which gesture to use, let the local person take the lead.
Politeness and Manners
Colombians use formal language, especially with people they don’t know well. It’s respectful to use “usted” instead of “tú” when addressing someone you’re unfamiliar with or in formal settings. As you get to know people, many will invite you to switch to the informal “tú.” Wait until they do.
“Please” (por favor) and “thank you” (gracias) are used often and should be, too. Colombians appreciate politeness, so manners go a long way. Always acknowledge people with greetings like “buenos días” (good morning), “buenas tardes” (good afternoon), or “buenas noches” (good evening). When entering a shop, exchanging pleasantries before getting to your request is expected.
Dress Codes
The way you dress in Colombia shows respect for the people you’re among, especially in social or formal situations. While casual wear is fine in most tourist areas, when you’re attending a gathering, visiting someone’s home, or going out at night, Colombians tend to dress smartly. This means nice jeans or slacks and a well-fitted shirt for men, and a dress or nice pants for women.

Be mindful of Colombians’ tendency to dress more conservatively, particularly in less tourist-heavy areas. Avoid anything too revealing unless you’re at the beach or in more liberal cities like Cartagena. In churches and religious sites, always dress modestly. This means avoiding tops with exposed shoulders and shorts, out of respect.
Personal Space
Colombians tend to be physically affectionate, and personal space might be smaller than you’re used to. Don’t be surprised if someone leans in close during conversations or offers gentle touches like a pat on the arm. This is just a sign of friendliness and warmth.
If you’re a guest in someone’s home, hugging or kissing on the cheek is very normal when leaving. It’s a way of saying goodbye on good terms.
Dining Etiquette
Sharing meals is an essential part of Colombian culture. If you’re invited to someone’s home, consider it an honor. It’s polite to bring a small gift as a token of appreciation, such as flowers or something sweet.
At the table, don’t start eating until the host begins. Also, try to finish all the food on your plate. Leaving food is often seen as wasteful. If you’re offered more food and can’t eat it, politely decline by saying “no, gracias, estoy lleno” (no, thank you, I’m full).
Public Behavior
Colombia is a country where respect for others is key, particularly in public places. People might be friendly and outgoing, but they expect everyone to behave politely in return. This means avoiding raising your voice or drawing too much attention to yourself in public settings.
Also, avoid discussing topics that might feel too personal to Colombians, like politics or sensitive historical issues, unless they bring it up. Keep the conversation light and friendly unless you’re with someone you know well.

Religious Traditions
Colombia is a predominantly Catholic country, and religion plays a major role in daily life. You will find that churches are woven into the communities, and religious festivals like Semana Santa (Holy Week) are celebrated widely.
When visiting churches, remain respectful. Speak in a low voice and avoid taking photos unless it’s explicitly allowed. Dress conservatively with long pants or dresses and cover your shoulders in these spaces.
During religious holidays, expect certain parts of the country to be quieter, with fewer shops open. On the other hand, some cities could have parades and street celebrations happening. If you want to see these events close-up, be respectful of the traditions while soaking in the local culture.
Giving and Receiving Gifts
If you’re invited to someone’s home in Colombia, it’s polite to bring a gift. Flowers, wine, or even chocolates are all acceptable options. Avoid marigolds, as they’re often associated with funerals.

When receiving a gift or being treated to something by a local, it’s normal to protest a little at first before accepting. This might be as simple as saying “no, no hace falta” (no, it’s not necessary) before eventually agreeing. It’s a way of showing appreciation and humility.
Time and Punctuality
In Colombia, time is more flexible than what you may be used to in other cultures. Arriving a bit late to a social gathering is common and even expected in many cases. Ten to fifteen minutes late is considered fashionable and not rude for informal events or meetups.
However, in professional settings, punctuality is taken more seriously. If you have business meetings, appointments, or formal engagements, aim to be on time as a sign of respect.

Tipping
Tipping isn’t obligatory in Colombia but is appreciated. In restaurants, a 10% service charge is often included in the bill. If you don’t see it, you can leave a tip of about 10% if you’re satisfied with the service. You can offer a few extra pesos to cab drivers as well, though it’s not expected.
If buying small items from street vendors or in markets, tipping is not required. Still, it’s good to express your thanks with a friendly “gracias” and a smile.
Respect for Elders
In Colombia, older people are treated with a great deal of respect. You’ll often hear them addressed as “señor” or “señora,” even by younger relatives. When speaking to elders, it’s common to use “usted” instead of “tú” as a sign of respect.
If you’re in a crowded area like public transport, it’s expected that you’ll give up your seat for an elderly person if there are no other seats available.
Patriotism
Colombians are proud of their country, and you might notice this in conversations. Football (soccer) is particularly important, and national pride reaches new heights during the World Cup. Whenever Colombia is playing, expect people to gather in bars or even the streets to cheer on their team.
While patriotism runs high, it’s important as a foreigner not to make critical remarks about Colombia, especially regarding its troubled past or politics. Locals are very aware of the challenges their country has faced, and it’s best to remain respectful and steer clear of negativity in your discussions.
Learning the Basics of Spanish
While many Colombians speak English—especially in cities and tourist areas—knowing some basic Spanish goes a long way. Even a simple “gracias,” “por favor,” or “buenos días” can make a big difference when interacting with locals. It shows respect and effort toward adapting to their culture.
Colombians generally appreciate when foreigners try to speak their language, even if it’s not perfect. People are most likely to be patient and encouraging when they see you’re making an effort.
Conclusion
Colombians are warm, friendly people who value respect and politeness. By following these customs, you’re sure to be met with smiles and open arms. Remember, kindness and good manners are key in Colombia—especially when you’re a visitor. Embrace the local culture, and you’ll find Colombians eager to share their way of life with you.
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